Any one got any ideas on how i should have my hair?

i live in uk. im 26 years old married mother of 4. at the moment i suffer from really bad migranes, even more so when i have my medium length hair tied up in a pony tail. as u can imagine having 4 young childen i dont get as much time to think about my hair and always have it tied up. im too terrifyed to have it cut really short as i am a size 16 clthes wise, and i think if i have it cut short it will make me look fatter. could n e 1 suggest a style or an opinion or even a website to help me?

HATS!!!

Maybe you could try braiding it back, just not too tight or it will hurt your head. I'm a big girl, too, and my hair goes to my waist.

if you decide to cut your hair their are some cute hair styles that are short.

get your hair in briands

I would let that pony tail down honey. Those damn things can make it much worse!

I think you need to have your hair layered. Do not cut it short. You also need to go to a beauty counter and have them do a nice makeup for you. You may end up purchasing something, but you would feel better about yourself. It is tough raising children, but I am sure you are a great mother and your children are very lucky, but you need to feel good about yourself too.