This is for the guys, please help!?

I have a problem with my husband, and I'm not sure if it's a real problem or just something in my head. I have been married for almost ten years, have two daughters. I may not be gorgeous, but I think I am attractive. I'm 32 years old but most people say I look younger. Size six, sometimes four, red, medium length hair, fair skin. I am not a health freak but I take care of myself as much as I can. My husband often calls me "HOT" and says I'm sexy - that is not a problem but he never, EVER says I'm beautiful. Not even pretty. I feel like a piece of meat, not a wife. Do you guys think this is a sign something else is wrong or can you give me the male point of view on this? Am I just over-sensitive? THANKS.

I am sorry to say this if it sounds bad, but I think your husband adores you and you are over reacting. He obviously uses a different set of vocabulary. It seems from what you say that he loves you and finds you attractive. Enjoy it !!!

over sensitive...maybe beautiful is not in his vocab...or maybe he is thinking that you want to hear the word hot....but my guess is he thinks that much...so enjoy it.

Ok, I'm not a guy, but I've dated enough guys like this to know... to guys, "beautiful" is what you'd call a flower or a nice painting, "hot" and "sexy" are what you would call an extremely attractive woman. He thinks you're beautiful... it's just not really a part of his vocabulary. I do the same thing with my husband. He's very handsome, but to me, "handsome" sounds like something my grandma would call him (in fact, she HAS called him that.) Instead, I tell him he's hot, and he says the same about me.